July 24, 2008

Guest Post: "Lady of the Snakes" by Rachel Pastan

The following is a guest post from EDIWTB reader and contributor Nancy West. It's a review of Rachel Pastan's Lady of the Snakes (which I discussed on the blog here). Thanks for the review, Nancy!

Pastan Novels coalesce around subsets of society – and yet it always seems there are some subsets still to be covered. For as long as I can remember, I've looked at different groups –  families driving cross-country for a summer vacation; college graduates backpacking in southeast Asia; office workers playing office politics – and thought, “I want to read a novel that explains exactly what it's like to be them.” And sometimes I find that novel, the one that explicates how a particular segment of society lives: for example, “The Beach” by Alex Garland in the case of the backpacking college students; or “Drop City” by T.C. Boyle in regard to commune dwellers – both great novels that I highly recommend. My sister is a tenured professor in the humanities, and ever since she was a graduate student, I've on occasion listened to her talk with her colleagues and thought “I don't understand what it's like to be them, but if there were a really good novel about their lives, maybe I would.”

Now there is just such a novel about academia: Lady of the Snakes by Rachel Pastan. Its protagonist, Jane Levitsky, is a young mother earning her Ph.D and embarking upon a promising career as a professor of Russian literature; or maybe I should say Jane Levitsky is a scholar of Russian literature beginning her journey through motherhood. Jane is neither a mother nor a scholar first; the two run along separate but equal tracks in her life. Neither one ever seems to take the upper hand over the other, though Jane herself would probably hastily and self-consciously rank motherhood over scholarship if she had to choose. But we know better: she is both, and prioritizing them would be impossible for her.

Which is how academics are, and just as this character should be, based on my observations. At the end of an arduous labor, she thinks of a childbirth scene written by one of the Russian writers she has studied and then realizes too late that maybe she should have been admiring her newborn instead; when a personal crisis comes to a climax in her household, it happens at the exact same time as an equally calamitous crisis in her scholarly research. To Jane, the two sometimes seem like conflicting forces – like all working mothers, she struggles with the most basic issues concerning balance, such as how to find sufficient childcare so that she has enough time for her research – but to the reader, who doesn't have to take Jane's worries as personally as she does, the inextricability of the two are what make her story so compelling.

Yes, there are other books about working mothers and the impossibility of balancing family life and career: as Gayle said when blogging about “I Don't Know How She Does it,” the subject in and of itself has already become tiresome to some of us. But Pastan makes it seem as if these struggles happen on a different level for academics, for whom it's not that they don't want to put their research aside but rather that they inhabit two parallel universes: their field of scholarship and their actual lives. I don't mean to imply that the work of professors is more demanding or more absorbing than that of any other professionals – mothers who are law students, cancer researchers, actors, journalists or in any number of careers face the same conflicts. But by immersing her protagonist in the murky fictional world of Russian novels, Pastan has found a particularly evocative way to illustrate the conflict.

And on a completely separate topic, the fact that the novelist that Jane Levitsky is studying does not really exist and therefore Pastan wrote not only her own novel but all the fictional passages from nonexistent Russian authors excerpted within the novel is frankly mind-boggling. It's a terrific read and a memorable and innovative portrayal of something we might have thought we'd all seen enough of: work/life balance and all its inevitable pitfalls.

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July 22, 2008

Reminder: Upcoming Online Book Club on July 28th

Reminder: The July online book club for Septembers of Shiraz, by Dalia Sofer, will take place here on Monday, July 28.  I will post a review of the book, and then anyone who would like to join the discussion can do so in the comments. Also, Dalia Sofer has graciously agreed to answer reader questions, so if you have questions for her, please include them in your comment or email them to me at gweiswasser@gmail.com.

I'm looking forward to the discussion!

July 21, 2008

"My Miserable, Lonely, Lesbian Pregnancy" by Andrea Askowitz

Asowitz A friend of mine told me about My Miserable, Lonely, Lesbian Pregnancy - she is friends with the author, Andrea Askowitz - and asked me a few months ago if I'd like to review it. I finally picked it up, and finished it yesterday. The title is rather self-explanatory - it's a chronicle of a single, lesbian thirtysomething's quest to get pregnant and her susbsequent pregnancy and delivery.

I enjoyed this book. There are definitely some parts I didn't love - the author is very self-absorbed (which actually becomes a theme of the book), and her constant regrets over ending her relationship with her ex-girlfriend Kate get frustrating after a while. (If she's that in love with her and misses her that much, why does she repeatedly break things off with her?).  But despite those drawbacks, I did enjoy this book. I've read pregnancy chronicles before (my favorite being Suzanne Finnamore's The Zygote Chronicles) but never from a lesbian perspective.

Askowitz is also a funny writer and a good storyteller. Rather than simply tell the story straight like a diary, she flashes back to earlier points in her life, such as the untimely death of her very close friend Robin and the beginnings of her relationship with Kate. She's searingly honest at times, about herself and others, which as a reader I greatly appreciated. Also, I enjoyed reading about the birth of her child (I won't give away what gender it was, since she kept it a secret during her pregnancy and the book). I had a c-section and am always a little wistful about not having delivered naturally, so it was interesting to read about her experience.

If you're interested, Askowitz has a blog on Amazon.com.  Also, for more reviews, click here and here (not so flattering).

I liked this book. Thanks, Yael, for the recommendation!

July 20, 2008

Children's Book: "The Rabbit and the Snowman" by Sally Lee

Lee I received a review copy this week of The Rabbit and the Snowman by Sally Lee. It's a kid's book, probably good for ages 3-6.

My four year-olds and I read it yesterday, and they gave it two thumbs up. It's the story of a snowman who befriends a rabbit in the winter. By spring, the snowman has melted, and the rabbit, while distracted by the nice weather and the flowers and the birds, misses the snowman. When the cold weather returns, the snowman reappears and the friends are reunited.

This is a gentle story with lovely watercolor drawings and some unique visual perspectives. When I asked the girls what they liked about the book, they said, "I like the pretty snow." "I like the colors." and "I like how the snowman came back." Both said they would like to read it again.

I'd be happy to read it to them again too. It's not my favorite kid's book of all time, probably because it's missing that adult humor that makes some kid's books so entertaining to read, but it's certainly a sweet book with a nice message about enduring friendship.

You can read another review of "The Rabbit and the Snowman" at BookingMama.

July 17, 2008

"The Size of the World" by Joan Silber

More magazine's June issue featured a book called The Size of the World, by Joan Silber, in a column titled, "Great Reads by Midlife Writers." The description was: "Cleverly constructed from interwoven narratives, Silber's novel explores themes of love and learning. Can an American feel at home in Thailand with his new wife? Will two Italian parents reconcile with the daughter they have disowned? Silber illuminates how we are bonded by our differences."

The L.A. Times reviewed The Size of the World last week, and said:

SilberOne of the ways an author can really stretch and test the possibilities of fiction is by covering a great deal of ground -- the wide world. Joan Silber has set out to do this. The Size of the Worldmoves from the United States to Vietnam to Thailand, back to the U.S., to Sicily and back to Thailand with dizzying fluidity. Silber weaves a web of characters that ties these places together. Picture the decisions they make in their lives -- whom to marry, where to live, what to do for work -- as the intersections of various threads. Each time a child is born, the radius of the web spins outward with new possibilities, new vectors, new decisions. Longing is the fuel, the energy that drives this growth: longing to be with the person you love, wherever that takes you; longing for a place; longing to do right; longing for redemption.

And here is a glowing review from The Written Nerd blog, who calls Silber one of most underrrated writers in America. From the review:

This is one of those books that stays with you like a sweet taste in the mouth, like a new idea you keep turning over to inspect its angles. The title’s allusion to our newly small, newly vast world is teased out through specifics: emails to Thai Muslims affecting an Italian in New Jersey because of the actions of Arabs in New York, and further back because of ties of family cemented in the last days of Fascist Italy, and a conscience discovered in an American engineering lab in Vietnam, and a legacy from the days of colonialist tin mining in Thailand. It’s mind-boggling, and as familiar as the shape of our own days.

Here's the NYT Book Review on The Size of the World.

And here is a guest post by Joan Silber on The Millions blog about traveling abroad and reading books of local interest while there. She says:

While reading intensifies my sense of place, it also fuses with what's seen - I can't always remember what I learned from observing and what I read. (Perhaps I am like that about everything.) During my stay, reading gives me the beautiful sensation that I'm an adept in whatever's going on around me, just as reading sub-titles in a movie can convince me I know the language.  I'm not above reading books by fellow foreigners, but I try to avoid those by travelers who only passed through (what do they know that I don't?) in favor of writers who've spent real time in the place.

I'd never even heard of Joan Silber before I read these reviews - has anyone out there read this or anything else by her?

July 15, 2008

"So Long At The Fair" by Christina Schwarz

I found a summer book in the unlikeliest of places on Sunday: People magazine, which I leafed through at the gym. It's called So Long At The Fair, by Christina Schwarz. People says, "A midwestern couple struggle with a crisis in their marriage, circa 1963. Schwarz's emotional acuity and multi-layered storytelling make this one spellbinding."

Breaking the Spine blog reviewed it today:

Schwarz Told in flashbacks between the present and 1963, So Long at the Fair follows the story of two generations of several families in a small Midwestern town.

At the heart of it... is the examination of a marriage over the course of one day, as a husband wrestles with adultery, a wife comes face to face with her past, and a mistress struggles with the future of her affair, while also being pursued by another man.

I found the flashback part of the storyline a little hard to follow, but that could very well be because I read the majority of it while sitting beside an indoor pool at the Opryland Hotel in Nashville (imagine children's voices reverberating off the walls and you'll get the picture).

The past, and how it completely intersects with the present characters, takes the whole book to come together, but the pieces finally do fall into place. And, even though I wasn't always sold throughout, I was engaged enough and able to see that we were headed for a very dramatic conclusion, so I stuck with it. It wasn't my favorite book of the year, but it was a short read that did keep me curious, albeit sometimes confused.

I also read a review of this book in BookPage (my favorite free book circular), who says, "Schwarz masterfully captures small-town life in all its gossipy glory. Wry, keenly observed and surprising, So Long at the Fair will leave you somewhere between heartbreak and laughter."

 And here is a review of So Long At The Fair from the L.A. Times. It's kind of mixed, but I am still intrigued.

Would love to hear from anyone who's read this.

July 14, 2008

"The Condition" by Jennifer Haigh

I've been reading reviews of The Condition by Jennifer Haigh in a bunch of outlets of late, and I just received a review copy of it from HarperCollins. I may bring it on vacation with me next week.

Condition The Condition opens in a Cape Cod summer house in 1976, where the McKotches, a family of five, has gathered for a vacation. Paulette and Frank McKotch have three children - two boys, Billy and Scotty, and a daughter, Gwen, who has Turner syndrome, a chromosomal abnormality that prevents her from going through puberty. The book then jumps ahead twenty years and revisits the family. The parents have divorced and the children are each leading disparate yet equally unhappy lives.

Booking Mama reviewed The Condition last month, and said:

I loved the title of this book. My first impression was that "the condition" that the title referred to was Gwen's Turner's Syndrome. However after reading the book, I think that the title could be alluding to other "conditions" as well. Basically, each member of the McKotch family is wrestling with their own "condition" -- something that they blame for the demise of their family. In addition, I'm pretty sure that the term is also referring to the condition of the McKotch family in general-- the various states of the family throughout the course of the novel.

Book Club Girl has a video of Jennifer Haigh talking about the book as well. And here is a review from today's Washington Post Book World by Chris Bohjalian, who writes:

Haigh has demonstrated in her previous two novels, Mrs. Kimble and Baker Towers, an unerring ability to chronicle the ways people delude themselves -- those lies we tell ourselves daily to survive. And in The Condition her touch with characterization is usually sure. Occasionally, Paulette's monumental repression and Billy's gay domesticity feel a tad clichéd, but generally Haigh's characters are layered and authentic. Moreover, one would have to have a heart of stone not to care for them and follow their small sagas.

The novel moves at a leisurely pace with little occurring through the first half. In the second half, however, the story gathers momentum when Gwen visits a Caribbean island where a handsome, charismatic scuba instructor suddenly and inexplicably falls in love with her. She chooses to stay with him on the island, setting off a seismic shift that causes the rest of her family to lose their balance and make choices that range from merely shortsighted to appalling.

And then we come to the end, which does not feel fully earned or very likely. But Haigh is such a gifted chronicler of the human condition and I cared so much for each member of the McKotch clan that I was nonetheless happy to have spent time with them, and to have witnessed them growing up and old and, finally, learning to accept who they are. 

In an interview in More magazine last month, Haigh said, "Whatever family you grew up on, it's got its own culture. The question of what is kept secret and what is spoken about openly cuts to the heart of our relationships with our parents. The list of taboo topics is not identical in any two families."

Anyone out there who has read The Condition and Mrs. Kimble - which one should I read first?

July 11, 2008

I Need Your Input

Hi EDIWTB readers. I have an important question to ask you.

This book predominantly covers contemporary fiction. That's what I like to read, so that's what I write about. And since you're reading this post, I assume that's at least part of what you like to read too.

However, I have, in the past, featured a few children's books on this blog as well. I have twin four year-olds, so I read a fair number of books aimed at that age group as well.

My question is this: do you like the children's book reviews, do you simply ignore them, or do they bug you to the point that you'd stop reading this blog if I kept it up? I like writing them, because when a kids' book inspires me, I want to tell the world about it. But I certainly don't want to do it at the expense of my regular readers. It would be fun to launch a separate blog just for children's books, but I just don't have time.

So let me know what you think via the comments below. Be honest. If enough people tell me they hate having the kids' stuff on here, I will happily cease and desist. I must also disclaim - I will probably only review kids' books aimed at whatever age my girls are at the time - I can't see myself reading books for older kids or YA until I have to.

Thank you for taking the time to voice your opinion.

July 09, 2008

Miscellany

A couple of random book-related items today:

1. The fantastic book blog Book Club Girl and Harper Collins are doing a great giveaway: 12 copies of 12 books - one selection a month for a year. There are some really good books on the list too: We Have To Talk About Kevin, The Space Between Us, The Yiddish Policeman's Union, etc. One lucky book club will win copies of these great books for 12 of its members (144 books total). And even better - no time spent figuring out what to read next month! Click here to enter.

2. I have two books to give away to EDIWTB readers. I received them as review copies in the mail and would like to pass them along to someone who is interested in them. The first is The Best Old Movies For Families: A Guide To Watching Together, by Ty Burr. It is "an impassioned and eminently readable guide that introduces the delights of the golden age of movies. Ty Burr has come up with a winning prescription for children brought up on Hollywood junk food." The second is for you romance book fans out there: After The Kiss, by Suzanne Enoch.  If you would like to have one of these books, leave a comment here with your email address and let me know which book you're interested in. I will pick a name at random by COB on Friday, July 11.

Lichtenheld 3. Finally, I'd like to recommend another children's book. This one makes me laugh out loud every time I read it, it has great adult humor, and it's short! It's called What Are You So Grumpy About? by Tom Lichtenheld and it's about the things that put kids in a bad mood. The best page is the one with the cereal box ingredients. My girls are 4 and they are definitely enjoying it. I was also happy to see that Tom Lichtenheld has another book out called What's With This Room?, which is about "the murk and stench of one boy's messy room and presents a hilarious dialogue between parent and kid."

July 07, 2008

"Cost" by Roxana Robinson

The NYT reviewed Cost by Roxana Robinson yesterday. Here's the Amazon summary:

Cost Julia Lambert is a New York art professor spending the summer in Maine with her elderly father, a domineering neurosurgeon, and mother, a gentle soul succumbing to Alzheimer's. Julia's oldest son, Steven, joins the clan as tragic news surfaces: her second son, Jack, is addicted to heroin. Ex-husband Wendell, Julia's distant sister Harriet and Jack himself soon arrive, and intervention is on the agenda. Jack refuses to go quietly, and Robinson, who has worked in multiple genres (including penning a biography of Georgia O'Keeffe), engulfs the clan in a sea of resentment and repressed hostility, spiked with the intermittent need to feel close. Her unrelenting look at the deep physical and mental distress involved in heroin abuse is not for the faint of heart, with key portions of the drama unfolding through descriptions of Jack's perpetually itching skin, twitching muscles, heaving stomach, needle-tracked arms and addled brain. While the omniscient narration sometimes loses focus, Robinson offers adept closeups of family trauma.

The NYT says, "Robinson has been perennially and somewhat reductively tagged a chronicler of WASP life. This designation, while factually accurate — as is the observation that her stories regularly address parenting and marital issues — doesn’t do her justice. These subjects — WASP life, domestic life — are often used as code for 'small,' in the sense of both trivial and mean, and Robinson’s fiction is neither. In writing about characters whose lives are constrained, she makes them loom large."

This sounds like a somewhat grueling book covering some of the same topics this blog has covered before - a child in trouble, albeit an adult child. I seem to be drawn to these books!

The Chicago Tribune says:

Loss, grief and regret are the central subjects of Roxana Robinson’s harrowing new novel, which applies the writer’s trademark gifts as an intelligent, sensitive analyst of family life to the darkest subject matter she has tackled to date. . . . Robinson achieves a truly Shakespearean breadth of vision in this final scene, acknowledging that suffering can sharpen our understanding without minimizing the lasting damage it inflicts. Bleak though it undeniably is, Cost is also a warmly human and deeply satisfying book, marking a new level of ambition and achievement for this talented author.

I will have to add this to the TBR pile. Has anyone read this yet?

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